kakak update: do i have to go to school tomorrow?
15 08 2007i guessed as much.
here’s the thing - was in the midst of putting together a simple dinner when kakak approached me. she calmly showed me her hand - telling me it was hurt. took a look and saw that her thumb and forefinger looked like it was bleeding.
asked her what happened - she broke down and cried while pointing @ her brother’s baby cot. quite puzzling, i’d say - since being a baby cot, there was no sharp surfaces or angles. but i proceeded to clean the wound - and was puzzled a bit more.
the cotton wools i’ve used to dab on the wound came out dark pink instead of red. this can’t be blood, methots… that’s when i suspected something’s not quite right there.
amir questioned her again on what actually transpired - he too looked a bit sceptical on the baby cot being the reason. when we insisted again, she then pointed at the artificial flowers that she was playing with earlier. a change in story.
then in the midst of cleaning the cut, she asked me,
“mama, do i have to go to school tomorrow?”
i asked why should she not go to school? - “because my hand is hurt”
i don’t really think this was the reason. queried her a bit more, suspecting that something happened in class that caused this reluctance.
then she opened up - “athirah is angry at me”
 to be continued
after a bit more questioning, found out that this athirah - a girl who kakak is seated next to - had previously gripped kakak’s arm a few times.
was tempted to keep her home from school the next day, but that wouldn’t solve the problem so decided to coax her into still going. she agreed after i promised to talk to her teacher and request for a change in seating.
when i dropped her off at her class before seeing her teacher, i just noticed that she is the biggest kid in class. shows what a softie kakak is … if i were her, i’d just whallop this athirah
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she’s smart… no doubt!!